Amid the sea of dating apps and run clubs, dating looks very different these days. Many folks both in our sessions and outside of them, report being fatigued by dating apps and screens in favour of meeting new people in the wild and prioritising genuine, felt connection.

When we are disconnected from our sexuality as our own, by us and for us, our sensuality, our pleasure, is then also not our own. Our sexuality often feels like it is not for us, but existent for the enjoyment and service of others, validated as real and functioning only through the engagement of someone else.

Human’s eroticism and attraction is mysterious. There are often elements of contradiction, challenge, and ambivalence that must be overcome in order to create intense eroticism. 

This month, Good Vibes Clinic is exploring ethical non-monogamy (ENM). This week we are covering what ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is, and common relationship formations in ENM.

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